Blessed Friday-Money and Marriage Success tip #14: I am loved by many.

Good morning, awesome people of the world…

How many times, have we felt like we are totally all alone in this world?

Especially when challenges happen in our lives, we tend to submerge in that loneliness and drown in our own sorrows because we felt that we are alone and no one can help us.

Is that TRUE? Is that really, really true?

When MARRIAGES are faced with problems (I prefer to use the term “CHALLENGES) , “modern couples” nowadays preferred to solve them out by themselves. No intrusion of external parties even immediate families like parents/in-laws. They feel that they might interfere and add more conflicts and confusion to the challenge at hand.

Whereas in actual fact, there are many professionals and even family members (whom we trust and love dearly) especially elders who have gone thru life’s ups and downs who can see the whole challenge as an onlooker and give their thoughts and advice or participate as mediators.

When we faced with MONEY problems, the same can be said. There are many SOLUTIONS to every challenge. There are many people who are professionally experts in these matters. Just look at their lives. They are a walking success boards.

We are NEVER alone. There are many who LOVED us..some LOVED us more than we loved ourselves. Do not tune them out just because you do not want to trouble them or because of all the little voices in your head.

A friend recently was in trouble. She wanted help but she was afraid to voice out. She thought she was alone and kept her troubles to herself.

If she did not voice out, how do anyone knew her challenges and wanted to help her, right?

And also because she was raised as the one who solved other people’s problems and she was often seen as the “tough one”. This identity of hers stay intact in her skin and personality that she refused to ask for help.

Eventually, after I noticed her restlessness and her “unusual silent” mood, I pestered her and she poured out.

She is a single mother of 3 kids. She needs a roof over her head.But she refused to meet up with organisations who can be of help to her. In her mind, ” I’m not that bad, I still can survive. There are others who need more than me, let them serve these people who are worse than me”.

That was the “mantra” in her head. Eventually if she continues on, she will be worse than anyone else. She will not even afford a roof over her head and her kids. And might have to live on the streets. But do we have to wait till that happens?

I persuaded her to just apply and seek help from these “angels organisation” and see what happens.

I asked her to start receiving little kindness and be grateful for that.

At first, it was tough to change old habits. But eventually, she relented and try it out.

Now not only did the organisations helped her out by getting her a home for her and her kids, but also get her a job that she is passionate about and at the same time she is able to care for her kids as well.

She is now very happy, leading a fulfilling life.She also went out to meet other single parents and help them in anyway she can.

She told me that- “Actually, its ok to receive. I have been giving out so much that I have no more to give. And I have trouble receiving from others. But as I learn to receive little kindness for myself and my kids, more and more “rezki” (abundance) are flowing in. Alhamdulillah.”

So whenever you are down and felt so all alone, remember that is not true…and tell yourself that – “I am LOVED by many.” Look around you and be thankful for all the people in your life.

Accept and embrace all kindness be it small or big. Once you learnt to RECEIVE The small things, the BIG things start rolling in…without you realising.

The moral of this story is that if you cannot receive the little money and the little love in your life, how can you be sure you are capable of receiving the BIG money and the BIG love in your life? Sometimes, we are so used to being self-sufficient that we tend to push away anyone who wanted to share/help us in our lives. I knew this too well because I faced these challenges as well. But that shall be another story to be told, another day, ok?

Take care,

You are never alone.
My love is for u wherever you are.

Love,live, laugh,

linatv2b
Lina Masrina ,
the World Halal Traveller
(I have travelled to 36 countries.If I can do it, you can do better!)

Blessed Friday-Money and Marriage Success tip #13 I am responsible

Good morning, awesome people of the world…
Today’s tip on money and marriage is: I am RESPONSIBLE.

Shout it out loud and clear.

The world is what you make out of it.For everything that we do, we are responsible for it.

I’m still on a roadtrip. Abundance scenery, gorgeous people, wonderful and fantabulous lessons learnt.

The fact that I’m also bus hopping thruout the states, makes me more starry-eyed groggy but more adaptable to changes.(I just learnt that in Malaysia, one cannot be too sure that they will travel in the same bus thruout even though they paid for that brand they felt happy with)

Fr both money and marriage , we are all responsible for it.For the choices we make daily, for the outcomes of it, for the lessons learnt, for the pain and pleasures that came out of it….etc.

Embrace that.There are no MISTAKES but LESSONS.

Do not justify, lay blame, create excuses…if you must point a finger, point it at yourself.

No one, not even our parents are to be blamed for the life we chose now. We are RESPONSIBLE. Claim that responsibility like a great leader and manouever it well.

I do wish to lengthen this “conversation” but as mentioned, this is hot from oven… inspired by my never ending travels…and the wonderful inspiring teachers I met thruout my unpredictable journey.

I am thankful.
Alhamdulillah.

“EVERYTHING IS DEFINITELY POSSIBLE. BELIEVE AND HAVE FAITH.”
– Lina Masrina

May your life be blessed.
Be happy in everything you do.
Love,live, laugh,

Lina Masrina ,
the World Halal Traveller ™
(I have travelled to 36 countries.If I can do it, you can do better!)

Blessed Friday:M & M Success Tips #12 Believe.

Good morning, awesome people of the world…

Today’s tip on money and marriage is: Believe.

If you have BIG dreams, have the courage to pursue and manifest them.

If in MARRIAGE, your goal is to be the bestest for your spouse in this life and hereafter… why not?

For me in Marriage, I wanna be the most romantic partner. I’m hopelessly romantic. So why not? I do not mind being the “man” and shower my soul life partner with flowers or little pink notes in little hidden corners and catch him by surprise with little notes of gratitude and love poems.

BELIEVE it and it will happen.Even though I might not know how to write a single sentence of poetry. But because I believe that I can be, somehow, I am open to it.

When I BELIEVE that I am romantic, for sure, ideas will start to flow in that direction-ROMANCE.

If in MONEY, your goal is to be a Millionaire… why not?

Ask yourself how long do you need to be a millionaire? Start believing and BE one!

Even if you have no money, start believing it.

I used to have no money. I used to write on a piece of paper the amount that I want and keep it in my wallet. Then it became reality.

Soon, I began to carry a $50 dollar note in my wallet. And the money that came in , are in 50s. Then I decided to make the amount bigger, gradually.Every time, I looked at it, I am positively charged. And then that dollar notes became $100. Then they escalated to $1000 dollar notes …

Somehow the doors to abundance will be open to you from all directions.

Believe it and it will happen.

When one believes with utmost conviction, nothing can stand in his/her way.

I’ve got a story to tell…

I once had a chat with my high school friends about travelling the world. I was the only home maker with no career in that period of time.My friends were mostly in their peak of their career paths.

We were chatting happily. I was really into it. Because it’s my dream. Travelling is my life. And so while they were busy calculating their “limited” time and money, I was busy charting my itinerary. I have no money but I got time. And I’m gonna paint that imagination in full 3D colours.

Best part is, I was the one who has no money at that time as compared to my high flier career friends. But it did not stop me.

I let my imagination run wild. I was prepared to be a street busker to fund my dream. I was prepared to do anything to make it real. But of course, my street music “capabilities” might chase people back into their homes. LOL.

But I did something. I believed in my dream so much that…
I even started to pack a small haversack for the so-called “future world tour”. I put it where I can see it often.

I believe so strongly that I can do it, no matter what.

Everyday, I wake up and look at that haversack on the floor near the door.
Before I sleep, I look at it again, standing confidently in its aloofness.

Few months later, I went for my world tour, unexpectedly.
Somehow, everything that I need came to me easily and effortlessly.

I was prepared to travel to 5 countries of various continents.
But I ended up travelling to 36 countries. Alhamdulillah.

What about my friends? They were shocked till today. Not able to understand what had just happened.

And yes, they were still bickering about their limited time and money as an excuse.

So my question for you today is…

What’s stopping you from fulfilling your dreams?

“EVERYTHING IS DEFINITELY POSSIBLE. BELIEVE AND HAVE FAITH.”
– Lina Masrina

May your life be blessed.
Be happy in everything you do.
Love,live, laugh,

linatv2b

Lina Masrina ,
the World Halal Traveller 
(I have travelled to 36 countries.If I can do it, you can do better!)

Blessed Friday:M & M Success Tips #11 Write it.

Good morning, awesome people of the world…

Today’s tip on money and marriage is: Write it.

KEEP A JOURNAL.

1) Money matters

Everyday, money flows in and out of your life. Do you keep track of it?

Even though you have  a certain amount of money for daily expenses and monthly spending, do you note every single cent you use, every day?

Do you keep a habit to have receipt for everything you do?

Everyone should do this. No need to wait until you become an entrepreneur to keep track of your money. You can start now. You can teach kids to do it as well.

a)Write a daily summary of what you spent before you sleep. 5-10 minutes is enough.

It’s really simple. For every cent that goes in and out, keep track of it by asking for receipts, and if possible, document it by writing it down or use those fancy apps on the market to keep track of your daily expenditure.

At the end of the month, tabulate it. And then compare with other months. See whether you can improve in some areas.

For example, I’m always moving. I often use public transport but if time is very tight, taking cabs is an advantage. So I ensure that every time I take cab, I will ask for the receipt. It became a habit so much so that not just for business but for pleasure, I will ask for receipt. This way, I will notice whether my cab rides are essential or not. And I will improve every month. And best part is…I do enjoy travelling by buses. the scenery, the people…so awesome!

2)Marriage matters.

In marriage matters, its best to note down important things you have learnt especially when there are exchanges of opinions and lessons learnt from every experiences.

I do carry a notebook everywhere. Even though I have my IPAD with me, I felt writing is essential in my life. Its therapeutic. And when you write, you focus with greater energy than in using IPAD or phone or whatever the new technology offers nowadays.

So in marriage, if you really wanna improve your love and relationship, do jot down every lesson learnt. And these ‘lessons’ often come unplanned. So be aware.

a)Have a daily night “couple” chat before sleeping. At least 30 minutes.

Share your daily life experiences and lessons learnt with each other. Jot these “gems” of life and take note of their lessons learnt.

2 heads are better than one. Do learn more from different eyes and perspectives.

So write different journals for different matters.

And revise it by often flipping through it.

May your life be blessed.Be happy in everything you do.

Love,live, laugh,

linatv2b

Lina Masrina ,

the World Halal Traveller 

(have travelled to 36 countries and more)

 

 

 

 

Blessed Friday:M & M Success Tips #10 Don’t Complain.


Blessed Friday:  Money and Marriage Success Tips.

Good morning, awesome people of the world…

Today’s tip on money and marriage is: Don’t Complain.

Easier said than done, huh?

I’m currently doing a short stint of travelling via roadtrip in Malaysia. Alhamdulillah. The whole experiences is way beyond words. The gorgeous places, food and amazing hospitality and warm embrace from everywhere, caught me in awe and such tenderness of kindness melted my heart. I felt like I don’t ever wanna leave.

A traveller’s address is in her heart. If you bring your home everywhere with you, you will feel belonged, everywhere.

One thing I noticed…

When fatigue sets in, my mind became blurred and disarrayed. Rain is a bonus but not when you are carrying a 10kg backpack and sweating profusely underneath the scorching heat.(weird isnt’ it? Raining wet and still got burnt by the sun?)

Then the challenges sets in…because I begin to complain.

Amongst the starry, starry night and awe-mazing beaches of Malaysia, and not forgetting the beautiful full moon, I was focusing on what I dislike. I was enlarging on my discomfort of wet jeans and shoes, the mosquito buzzing in my ears, the sand flies etc… And then slowly, everything became a pain in the buttocks (pardon my language).

I was not able to focus on the “happyness” or the blessing of the “NOW” moment. I was focussing on the “negative” side and thus from then on, everything seems topsy turvy. Nothing seems to go my way. Bus drivers, the receptionist, the restaurant staff… and whoever that I met, do not seem to “like” my presence. Everything can be a quarrel.

Then as I became aware of what’s happening. I took a deep breath. I can feel my cheeks were flushed and warm. I was raging inside. I took a moment to calm myself. I went down to the beach to watch nature at its best. The howling of waves crashing…seems to be therapeutic.

Whatever the “lil voices” were complaining inside, I embraced them and said-“thank you for sharing” and show them the EXIT door.

I then, started to be aware of what’s going inside and outside. And as I changed the words of complain to positive gratitude. Suddenly, my journey became better.

Everyone began to smile and laugh with me. I was enjoying myself. Even the rainy weather seems to invoke the fun side of me.

Hmm…

I shall remember…in whatever circumstances, do not complain. But seek the best side of everything. Even in people, especially in MARRIAGE and MONEY.

One key recipe I have learnt- Everyone in this world is doing their bestest to live their lives the bestest way they could with what they already knew.

When you keep that in mind. Somehow, your heart becomes one with them.

Soulmates are very hard to come by. Your spouses are your partners. No matter what differences you may have. Just remember, they are doing their bestest to love you, to make you happy and make both of your life experiences be memorably amazing.

As for MONEY, do not complain about the lack. But give gratitude about its presence. Even if it’s one cent. It is still something. It’s a blessing indeed.

Everything in this world is energy. What type of energy do you want to be with?

I shall proceed on with my journey. I shall continue my ramblings with the moon. Meanwhile, every moment in life is a treasure. Do keep that in mind.

The key tip of today is that-Do not complain. You will only enhance your negative experience. Instead focus on the blessings in every thing. And you will attract more of it.

Love,live, laugh,

linatv2b

Lina Masrina aka World Halal Traveller 

 

 

Blessed Friday:M & M Success Tips #9 Be HAPPY!

Blessed Friday:  Money and Marriage Success Tips.

Good morning, awesome people of the world…

Today’s tip on money and marriage is: Be Happy!

One thing I have learnt that we each have our own compass, our own intuition our own beacon of happiness. And I am such a happy go-lucky person. I realized that if anything I do, do not correspond well with my inner being of happiness, I will feel suffocated. And often enough that will help me choose the right options for me.

As an entrepreneur, I have learnt that I cannot delay in making decisions. And one way to choose the right decisions is to feel whatever that leads to happyness.

Everything in life, choose happiness as one of the important guidelines in everything you do.

Remember, everyone deserves to be happy in their own way. You are definitely worth it!

So in Money and Marriage , make sure you do things that you are happy about. Best if it comes with passion.

For example: Marry the man/woman you are happy about or best still the ones who make you happy everyday.

As for money, invest in stuff that makes you happy. This way you enjoy seeing the money grow. And  you want to learn more and more because it makes you happy.

Do you know that when one is happy, their energy level is high. The exuberance of happy vibes encourage like-minded people to attract to one another. And also whatever that one wants can be attracted easily with that energy and attraction.

If you have time and money, do invest in HAPPYNESS. Life may be short, may be long, whatever it is, BE HAPPY. You won’t go wrong.

“I’ve realized that being happy is a choice. You never want to rub anybody the wrong way or not be fun to be around, but you have to be happy. When I get logical and I don’t trust my instincts – Thats when I get in trouble.”Angelina Jolie


Hope that helps!

BE LOVE, be happy and be prosperous.

Have a great day!

Happy Regards,

linatv2b

Lina Masrina.

(Celebrity Blogger and Best-selling Author)

p.s: Do write in your heartfelt comments be it good or bad. I embrace all colorful comments very well, because I believe in order to succeed,we have to constantly improve ourselves. And who else can give us sincere feedback for improvement, right? YOU…of course , the fabulous raving fans.

Together we can make this.. be a wonderful journey of success for you and I , success in life and hereafter, insya-Allah amin..

Alhamdulillah. Thank you Abang Abu for this amazing  opportunity!

Blessed Friday-M & M Success Tip #8 : Mentors

Blessed Friday:  Money and Marriage Success Tips.

Good morning, awesome people of the world…

Today’s tip on money and marriage is: MENTORS.

I had the great pleasure of  meeting Blaire Singer and working with him as his crew in his event in Singapore. And one of the most important thing that I heard him say to us- Do not find a coach who has no coach.. something like that.

So regardless how successful we are, we always need a guide, a teacher, a coach, a mentor.

What are mentors? They are successful people who can advise us, be our guiding light to which path we want to take.

Of course, our Prophet (pbuh) is a great role model for us.

In Marriage, I believe there are people whom we respected and looked up to especially those elders whose marriage lasted beyond 2 decades and more. Some even lasted more than 50 years. Awesome isn’t it?  How do they do that?

How do they keep the LOVE glowing thruout their lives? How do they stay sane and be in LOVE always? How do they keep their marriage harmoniously intact?

Don’t you want to know their secrets? Make them your mentors. Learn from them as much. I believe thru out our lives, we have “mentors” aka teachers to guide us along our life.

For Marriage, your closest ones, even your parents or grandparents can be your mentors.

As for Money, find those successful role models and read about them. Find them and learn from them.(For example: Abang Abu-learn from him, go his events and workshops etc) Normally these wealthy successful people are very generous in sharing the secrets of their lives. I know cos I have met many and they always have some life gems to share with me. They have been there.

Remember…

“Every master was once a disaster.”~ T. Harv Eker

 Hope that helps!

BE LOVE, be happy and be prosperous.

Have a great day!

Happy Regards,

linatv2b

Lina Masrina.

World Halal Traveller

Blessed Friday-M & M Success Tip #7 : Solitude

Dear awesome readers of the world,

Past few days, my mind has been congested. I had no chance of emptying its contents neither do I have a chance to express it out. I was busy managing my time, my life. I did not realised that I need a time-out!

My mind cannot take in anymore data. It suddenly froze. And I cannot even write a single word for weeks. Call it writer’s block whatever. It just won’t budge. Not only towards writing but towards everything else. It’s like, the mind put up a sign-saying “Gone for fishing”.

Today, I had a chance to have a “therapeutic” walk. I lived in the city centre and so when night falls, it’s like a ghost town. I love that environment. Suddenly, the bustling city seems to whisper its own sleepy tune. I watched the extravagant colourful street lightings blinking from a distance, in celebration of a soon-to-be festive season.

This home town aka “happy” town has its solitude moments. Although in it lies a 24hour shopping centre , restaurants and night life, there are specific hours that one can get a sneak peak at its peaceful serenity. Its solitude.

I inhaled the fresh air and I realised something.

The  best thinking has been done in solitude. The worst has been done in  turmoil.“-Thomas  A. Edison

SOLITUDE is very important. To have a balanced life in MARRIAGE and MONEY, one needs solitude.

When my world gets too hyped-up, I need solitude.

And how do you gain solitude?

The modern world now knew meditation as one way of gaining peace into one’s life.

Islam itself is complete. Our meditation are prayers, Quran recitation and dhikr.

But what I want to emphasize are not the tools but the time.

As much as I love the serenity of the city centre during the last quarter of the night, that too is one of the most important time for the soul.

Successful people will wake up earlier than everybody else. And Islam encourages us to solat tahajjud in that period of time as well.

I learnt that the last quarter of the night is very important when I was doing hajj in 2011. Although in hifz class, we were encouraged to do tahajjud prayers daily (if not, weekly)..but in hajj, we were “trained” to do the tahajjud in groups. And it became a habit.

Of course, the hassle of getting up and getting ready was there but the end product was that, I felt an overwhelming sense of peace that no words can ever described.

It’s a time, where one spends with oneself and the Creator. To speak to the Almighty from the heart.

When your life, your mind or your heart is chaotic…. seek solitude.

Try it.

Hope that helps!

And have a blessed Friday!

linatv2b

Happy Regards,

Lina Masrina.

(CEO & Founder of World Halal Success)

p.s: Do write in your heartfelt comments be it good or bad. I embrace all colorful comments very well, because I believe in order to succeed,we have to constantly improve ourselves. And who else can give us sincere feedback for improvement, right? YOU…of course , the fabulous raving fans. Together we can make this.. be a wonderful journey of success for you and I , success in life and hereafter, insya-Allah amin..

Alhamdulillah. Thank you Abang Abu for this amazing opportunity!

Blessed Friday-M & M Success Tip #6 : Gratitude

Good morning… awesome people of the world,

Today’s tip on money and marriage is: GRATITUDE.

Do you have a gratitude diary? Are you able to list out 101 things to be grateful for, everyday? Or are you having trouble listing only 5?

1)GRATITUDE IN MARRIAGE

“Let us be grateful to the people who make us happy; they are the charming gardeners who make our souls blossom.” ― Marcel Proust

Appreciate the little things in daily life. The first thing when you wake up daily is to thank the Almighty for the gift of life.

Second is to thank your sleeping partner beside you. As you watch him or her sleep in peaceful bliss like an angel, thank the Almighty for letting you both meet and be deeply in love.

When he/she wakes up, thank him/her for being a part of your life.

Be appreciative of the little things he/she does.

Third is to appreciate nature. The abundance of air given to us.The beautiful sun, the gorgeous greeneries etc….

When one live in a life of gratitude, one will be bestowed with more of such blessings.

2)GRATITUDE IN MONEY

When you focus on the goodness in your life, you create more of it. Opportunities, relationships, even money flowed my way when I learned to be grateful no matter what happened in my life. -Oprah Winfrey

Whenever you find money, even a penny, be thankful for it. Be happy, express that gratitude with a dance of joy. You will attract more of it.

Be grateful for the things your money can buy.For example, daily food, transportation etc. Be grateful and express gratitude to everything in life. Be grateful as you ride the bus/cab and pay for it.

Be grateful for your pay. Be happy, do the dance of joy. Be “crazy-happy” upon receiving any money. InsyaAllah you will attract loads more.

Have fun embracing the “gratitude” of life!

Hope that helps!

And have a blessed Friday!

Happy Regards,

Lina Masrina.
linatv2b
(CEO & Founder of World Halal Success)

p.s: Do write in your heartfelt comments be it good or bad. I embrace all colorful comments very well, because I believe in order to succeed,we have to constantly improve ourselves. And who else can give us sincere feedback for improvement, right? YOU…of course , the fabulous raving fans.

Together we can make this.. be a wonderful journey of success for you and I , success in life and hereafter, insya-Allah amin..

Alhamdulillah. Thank you Abang Abu for this amazing opportunity!

Blessed Friday: M & M Success Tip #5 PAIN.

Blessed Friday:  Money and Marriage Success Tips.

Good morning… awesome people of the world,

Today’s tip on money and marriage is: PAIN…

1)PAIN IN MARRIAGE –Be aware, acknowledge it and feel it. And then let go, fully.

“People are afraid of themselves, of their own reality; their feelings most of all. People talk about how great love is, but that’s bullshit. Love hurts. Feelings are disturbing. People are taught that pain is evil and dangerous. How can they deal with love if they’re afraid to feel? Pain is meant to wake us up. People try to hide their pain. But they’re wrong. Pain is something to carry, like a radio. You feel your strength in the experience of pain. It’s all in how you carry it. That’s what matters. Pain is a feeling. Your feelings are a part of you. Your own reality. If you feel ashamed of them, and hide them, you’re letting society destroy your reality. You should stand up for your right to feel your pain.”
Jim Morrison

 Everyone has faced some kind of pain in their life. Big, small, tiny or major pain, whatever it is, it is still painful. A mentor once told me that pain are blessings in life. They prick you to ensure that you get your butt moving. To stop procrastinating, to stop wallowing in self misery, or self-depreciated moments. They kick your butt to ensure that you continue living instead of walking around like a dead corpse.

I had my heart broken, many times. It was excruciatingly painful. It felt like my heart was chopped into pieces and then acid was poured onto it. And the best part was, the heart was still intact in me. I cannot get rid of  the pain…no matter how long I was willing to give myself – days, weeks or perhaps years. I carried that pain along with me. It was a burden. It was my choice. I can choose to let it hurt me and kept on blaming it or I can choose to let it strengthened me and make me stronger.

After that realization, after every pain, I grew stronger. I became bolder and I became more fearless. That’s the beauty of overcoming every pain-the PLEASURES that comes after it, is priceless.

Love in Islam is acceptable only during marriage. And so… LOVE in this context meant MARRIAGE LOVE.

I realized that LOVE meant differently to two different people even though they may be madly in love. LOVE to me can mean that my life partner should be able to comprehend and understand me well. Thus whenever I need my life partner, he should be able to decipher me well with all my confusing “womanly codes”.

Mainly-Be there, be my shoulder to cry on, be the hand to hold my hand when in fear and mostly when I’m having my emotional turbulences..and LOVE means that whenever I’m with him, my world is safe and secure and nothing else matters.

But LOVE to my partner may mean differently. To him, perhaps LOVE means me being there all the time, ensuring that all his needs are met. His food, his clothing and also his daily household are kept tidy and neat etc. Kinda like a housekeeper who can also shower him with much tender loving care whenever he needs it.

And so if there is a lack of communicating with each other about their own rendition of LOVE, there may be eruptions of dissatisfaction and pain will be resulted after the commotion.

When pain happens, two people are hurt. They felt the pinch. They need to solve it, to heal it. Never ever let the pain unresolved and go to bed angry.

The blessing of a pain is that, one feels alive. To me, after pain, there will be no doubt that PLEASURE is coming next.

“Turn your wounds into wisdom.”  ― Oprah Winfrey

Normally after a quarrel and painful disruptions of emotions, two people will open their hearts to resolve the situation because of LOVE. And so they need to embrace each other’s’  perspectives. And thus, they learn more and more about each other after every pain. In this way, they grew together and constantly improve to benefit each other. That is what PAIN is all about, creating pleasures of living and bonding two people in love, in marriage. The goal is to create jannah (paradise) in life and also in hereafter. So make your marriage a living paradise.

Embrace it.

2)PAIN IN MONEY-Be aware, bless it with gratitude and then visualise your favorite outcome.

Have you every cringe at the thought of paying your bills, fees or fines? Have you felt so much pain in forking out that amount of money for the services rendered to you monthly?

Thus with that in mind, you kinda dread the end of the month for fear of paying the bills.

And because of that strong vibes of “negative” energy of not wanting to do it, the image of paying these services kept replaying at the back of your mind. And ended up, after you got paid, you got broke as well.

Because of that, our pain is being replayed over and over and thus, we ended up with more and more bills, fees and even fines to pay.

There was a time that I dreaded …the end of the month because I need to open up my mail box. I used to drag my feet and kept pushing it to the next day, to the next day and the next until my bills are overdue.

But I learnt from a successful mentor that I need to “bless” these bills, fees and fines. I need to feel happy in gratitude for the services rendered.  Remove those “painful” thoughts and energy from enveloping the bills. Say thank you and be happy.

Also replace those bills with cheques. Imagine the bills as cheques coming in abundantly to pay for your services.

As time goes, it shall be a habit and you no longer associate bills with pain. In fact, you begin to embrace them and visualised your favourite outcome instead: CHEQUES of payment to you.

TO FEEL PAIN IS TO BE ALIVE.

“I want to feel passion, I want to feel pain. I want to weep at the sound of your name. Come make me laugh, come make me cry… just make me feel alive.” -Joey Lauren Adams

Have fun embracing the “pain” in  your life!

Hope that helps!

And have a blessed Friday!

Happy Regards,

Lina Masrina.

(CEO & Founder of World Halal Success)

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p.s: Do write in your heartfelt comments be it good or bad. I embrace all colorful comments very well, because I believe in order to succeed,we have to constantly improve ourselves. And who else can give us sincere feedback for improvement, right? YOU…of course , the fabulous raving fans.

Together we can make this.. be a wonderful journey of success for you and I , success in life and hereafter, insya-Allah amin..

Alhamdulillah. Thank you Abang Abu for this amazing  opportunity!

 

 

Always Believe in Urself

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